Showing posts with label unschooling. Show all posts
Showing posts with label unschooling. Show all posts

Monday, September 13, 2010

This Week in Semi-unschooling...

This past week was a busy one, though not in the usual way. My husband was off work, and that led to atypical activities alongside the Usual Suspects.

Soccer practices and games seemed to dominate the week, whether those of Neal and Allie, Evan, Ken, or all of the above along with eight or nine other people who showed up in our backyard late at night. There were, of course, televised games also.

On the "bookwork" side of things, we watched part of the BBC Life  series and more of the Standard Deviants American Government DVD. Allie and Neal both spent time writing and reading. Neal has been listening to Harry Potter books at bedtime also.

Neal and Allie have developed a fascination with the pasta maker. I've come down in the morning several times now and found boxes of  fresh homemade pasta in the fridge.

The Local Village Festival was this past weekend, and the kids learned that it wasn't wise to eat a mound of fair food before one intends to go on rides. Messes up one's plans a bit!

Neal and I attended the Ohio Linux Fest in Columbus. We attended five workshops on Ubuntu, video editing, writing in Python, etc. We also got bags full of cool stuff.  We had to miss the parade on Saturday, but it was well worth it!

Ken passed his DSST exam, Introduction to Computers. Shocking, no?

Friday, April 9, 2010

A Blast from the Past...

It's confession time.

I've already confessed to allowing my children to be woefully ignorant of spelling tests, and to not gluing their behinds to their chairs while they fill in the Thousand Multiplication Problems of Doom. I've admitted to letting them build Lego castles when they 'should' be staring balefully at my face while I drone on endlessly (I'm good at that!) I also freely own up to the fact that I have no respect for 'grade levels' of any books, including textbooks....and educational "experts of the month" don't rate much better.

Time for more admissions of guilt:

We've had lessons in bathroom cleaning....with certificates given to the graduates.
I let my thirteen-year-old sleep in until ten (or later!) so that I can have some uninterrupted time teaching the two younger ones. Granted, we don't get up until 8:30, and our lessons don't start until 10 or so, but maybe that's a different confession.
We do Chemistry experiments that involve flame and small explosions. This is not approved by the Great Nannies that be.
We don't issue grades. Who would we being comparing the kids to, and why?
When someone runs into something they can't quite understand, we don't drone on and on, call for experts or medication, or label the kid a failure. We put it away for a few weeks or months, then go back. Usually the difficulty will have resolved itself in the child's brain on its own.
I have let my thirteen-year-old out of 'schoolwork' so that he can fix the computer.
We've played games all day and called it school
We've cooked all day and called it school.


Vacations are counted as school...it's living geography, right? And the kids do a lot of reading and puzzles.
We use Dell puzzle books for math sometimes.
We've had school while one child was dressed as Laura Ingalls, one was a princess, and one was a policeman. And it was nowhere near Halloween.
I firmly believe that reading Scientific American or Seed or Ranger Rick magazine is as good or better than reading a science textbook.
When they were in that stage, I've let a child do fifteen or twenty mazes or eight or ten crosswords at a time. (I also let a little one eat pickle after pickle- along with her usual food- for a few days...until she gave it up on her own. She was fine, but she smelled like garlic for a week!)
Reading class is often done in bed.


But my biggest confession is that I don't really teach high-school-aged kids much at all. I enable them to teach themselves.

Actually, this transfer of educational power begins when the little one can read. Reading is the ultimate power-grab: it introduces the child to a whole world of knowledge that Mommy and Daddy don't mediate. Of course we help our children choose books, but in the end, the book has power in a child's mind that we can't entirely foresee.

I also keep lessons short and to the point during the preteen years. This gives the children time to develop their own interests and talents, which, in our family, has meant that every one of them who has reached age ten or twelve has several things he or she can do better than my husband or I.

By the time they're in their early teens, the transition to self-education is well along. I give them ideas and make occasional assignments. We discuss their choices of subjects to explore, and I help them keep it all balanced. As they head on to the middle teens, we discuss what they'll need for whatever college or career plans they have and try to match the course of study with their choices, keeping in mind that they need to be educated people first, good ACT testers somewhere down the line.

This has (so far) produced three teens who made the transition to college easily, since they were used to studying and finding information on their own. They also have had the motivation needed to keep gong even when it got tough. The lack of reliance on traditional texts and parroting techniques has also made them less likely to simply accept what they're taught because they've seen how differently two sources can portray the same 'facts', and more likely to question their teachers. The two who are now adults are motivated people who keep expanding their educational horizons because they enjoy it.

Ultimately, that is our greatest educational goal: to teach people how to teach themselves.

That, and teaching them to clean bathrooms!

Thursday, November 19, 2009

Early Learning Online

At our house, the younger kids have been able to get online since they were three. (They had way more outside time and reading-with-mom time than computer time though!) I tried to make sure that their computer time was well spent. Here are a few great educational sites to add a bit of fun and learning.

Preschool and Kindergarten Learning Games Online

Starfall
This fun and free site will help you teach your child to read! It starts with an introduction to the alphabet and basic phonics, followed by beginning phonetic stories. then vocabulary building and more reading for experience. The site is colorful and has cheery graphics, without being too overdone. It is a very useful addition to any reading program. If you're not sure how to teach your little one to read, use this site as a guide! It is also free, though they do offer various helps for sale.

Science With Me
A colorful, engaging site that uses fun animated characters to teach science to preschool-to-ten-year-olds. Fun games, worksheets, coloring sheets, experiments, and more. Requires registration, but it is free!

Building Blocks
Matching, a recording studio, discerning feelings...some very nice games!

Poisson Rouge
An adorable site with several learning games.

Sesame Street
Easy, fun learning games...even if your kids don't watch the show!

Build a Neighborhood
...with Mr. Rogers. A sweet game that teaches about the communities we live in.

Nick Jr.
A bit commercial, but there are so many resources here that it's hard to leave off. Games, coloring pages, activities, crafts...and a great search feature that lets you find things by age , subject, etc.

Alphabet Bears
Learn alphabetizing with this fun flash game.

Learn the months
...with this cute song. You'll be singing it in the car for months!

Boowa & Kwala
Cute and fun educational games

Gamequarium Jr
A Portal to many online games for small ones. The links are in the pull-down menu at the top of the page....

Funschool Preschool
An assortment of games and fun for little ones. Some ads.

Homeschool Preschool and Kindergarten Websites for Parents 

Preschool Express
A monthly activity calendar, recipes, activities, art projects.....very useful!


Preschool Printables
Need a coloring sheet for W? A finger puppet pattern? Kindergarten writing paper? Find it here


Stormie's Preschool Curriculum
A month-by-month preschool/kindergarten idea list. Many activities are clever, creative, and actually educational. A great place to look for new ideas

A to Z Kids Stuff Preschool and Kindergarten
A compendium of ideas for units on everything from bugs to rainbows to scissors....


Internet 4 Classrooms Kindergarten
A huge list of games, help sites, idea sites, etc.

Wednesday, November 4, 2009

Free Science Lessons-Physics

How Stuff Works

All ages. How do computers work? How do malaria drugs work? What if I tried to drive my car underwater? A great site for the bored kid...and a great resource for the Eternal Questioner.

Fizzics Fizzle

All ages. A Thinkquest site which gives a very good introduction to physics. There are games and animations that reinforce the information presented. A great reference, introduction or refresher.

Reeko's Mad Scientist Lab

7 and up. A fun site with many experiments and good explanations of the results. Also has games and puzzles!


MadSci Network

For all ages. Another great site for the bored child. "represents a collective cranium of scientists providing answers to your questions. For good measure we provide a variety of oddities as well." Really fun, and has an 'Ask a Scientist' program!

NASA Beginner Guide to Rockets

Ages 11 and up. Look at various types of rockets - from bottle and stomp rockets to full-scale boosters. Find out how the work.

Life, the Universe, and the Electron

For teens. An exhibit about atomic structure.

Teach Engineering


Lessons all ages.

Glencoe Physical Science


Has quizzes and web resources for ninth-grade textbook in physical science. Can be useful.

Optics For Kids

Ages 10 and up. Learn about light, lenses, and lasers.


The Atoms Family


11 and up. Basic physics in a fun and memorable way!

Physics Life

11 and up. A look at the physics pf things in our everyday world. Nice interactivity.

Antimatter: Mirror of the Universe


8 and up. A look at the CERN particle accelerator and the quest for antimatter. Good for the teen who likes mysterious subjects. There is a kids' section!

Science Hobbyist


8 and up. Fun and useful articles and experiments. Includes the famous resource, Is Your Child's Science Textbook Wrong?

The Particle Adventure

8 and up. Activity sheets, graphics, animations..all explaining the subatomic world.

PHet Simulations

All kinds of Java physics demonstrations! Colorful and insightful!

EdHeads Simple Machines


Ages 6 to 12. Activities, animations, etc. all explaining how simple  machines work.

Science with me

A cheery, colorful website with games, animations, worksheets and coloring pages for preschool to about age 10. Subscription required, but it's free!


For Fun!


Physics Behind Four Amazing Demonstrations

10 and up. I can walk on burning coals...can you? Here's how we all can...

Unwise Microwave Oven Experiments

All ages...but watch out!!  What would happen to this if I put it in the microwave??


Physics of Superheroes

All ages. A Youtube lecture on the way things DON"T work in the world of comic book heroes! Really funny, and informative. Good for adult as well as kid enthusiasts, and for anyone who's ever watched a cartoon and marveled at how they are a bit different from real life!


Amusement Park Physics


7 and up.  Design your own roller coaster, and see how gravity and friction affect your choices.

Skateboard Science

7 and up. Your future Tony Hawk will enjoy knowing how the tricks are done, and how to improve his or her own skating.

Thursday, September 3, 2009

First Day, First Week

Monday was our first day of "official" school. So far it's all gone quite smoothly and happily, so here's a few things I've learned about my Students:

1) Allie tends to go to bed right after her story time (which is Book 3 of the Belgariad right now), so she has  no formal bedtime, but she gets in at about the same time each night. Neal, on the other hand, has no bedtime but he does have an arising time. As long as he can get up when he's supposed to and be relatively cheerful about it, I won't impose bedtime.


2) It's very nice to have Allie up for an hour or so before Neal gets up. That allows us to get through most of her academics without competition or interruption.


3) Neal believes that he is unschooling. While I'm sure that his definition wouldn't gel with some purists, he did pick out his subjects and books, and he studies mostly on his own, with a bit of encouragement. Sounds pretty close to unschooling to me.


4) I send emails to the kids most mornings with computer-based activities listed for the day. It may be a website to check out, or a workpage for their writing club, the The LOLcats and Phun Gnomes Society  (Club Oath: We will not kick gnomes, and we will respect LOLcats. Excellent free lesson plans for a  writing club)


5) Writing is much more fun on a laptop, even if it's Dad's. Having fun writing is more important than perfecting handwriting.
6)  Subjects that have Girl Scout badges to go along with them are great!

Friday, February 13, 2009

Which One?

I think Neal is trying out his eleventh version of Linux on his Eee PC right now. He's tried two versions of Ubuntu (or is that 3?), Puppy Linux, Mint, and several whose names escape me because I wasn't able to catalogue them fast enough. He even found a version on a Japanese site taht he was able to download and change to English...

He said that he's being like Evan...

I wonder how common Linux obsessions are among 12 yo boys?

Tuesday, February 10, 2009

A Very Favorite Resource

Click Schooling is a free email list that I've been getting for more than two years now, and it's one that I always read. Every day, Diane Flynn Keith pints homeschooling parents to the best of learning on the web. The recommendations even come with age levels and highlights of the sites. Each day has its own emphasis:

* Monday = Math
* Tuesday = Science
* Wednesday = Language Arts
* Thursday = Social Sciences
* Friday = Virtual Field Trip
* Saturday = Electives: Music, Art, & Languages

It's really enriched our schooltime, and it's FREE! It would be useful for any parent, teacher, or childcare worker who is looking for activities, worksheets or online fun.

Wednesday, January 7, 2009

Arthur - King of the Britons!

We're on a bit of a break now, having left aside our study of world history and inserted a shot bit on the legends of King Arthur. It's turning out well, I think. Tomorrow we should begin to design shields.

Neal is getting more comfortable with his Algebra, thank Fred!

Allie just started her first Fred book on Fractions, which she seems to be quite happy with. We're going to throw in the "Winnie book", as TJ called it (aka Math Doesn't Suck).

Ken is pretty happy reading The Mammoth Book of Eyewitness History and Sophie's World, which is a history of philosophy. He's also spending a lot of time on guitar and (surprise!) computer. We're getting a new math book soon also.

Monday, October 6, 2008

Free Science Lessons - Physics

Free Science Lessons-Physics

How Stuff Works

All ages. How do computers work? How do malaria drugs work? What if I tried to drive my car underwater? A great site for the bored kid...and a great resource for the Eternal Questioner.

Fizzics Fizzle

All ages. A Thinkquest site which gives a very good introduction to physics. There are games and animations that reinforce the information presented. A great reference, introduction or refresher.

Reeko's Mad Scientist LabThe Life of Fred: Algebra

7 and up. A fun site with many experiments and good explanations of the results. Also has games and puzzles!


MadSci Network

For all ages. Another great site for the bored child. "represents a collective cranium of scientists providing answers to your questions. For good measure we provide a variety of oddities as well." Really fun, and has an 'Ask a Scientist' program!

NASA Beginner Guide to Rockets

Ages 11 and up. Look at various types of rockets - from bottle and stomp rockets to full-scale boosters. Find out how the work.

Life, the Universe, and the Electron

For teens. An exhibit about atomic structure.

Teach Engineering


Lessons all ages.

Glencoe Physical Science


Has quizzes and web resources for ninth-grade textbook in physical science. Can be useful.

Optics For Kids

Ages 10 and up. Learn about light, lenses, and lasers.


The Atoms Family


11 and up. Basic physics in a fun and memorable way!

Physics Life

11 and up. A look at the physics pf things in our everyday world. Nice interactivity.

Antimatter: Mirror of the Universe


8 and up. A look at the CERN particle accelerator and the quest for antimatter. Good for the teen who likes mysterious subjects. There is a kids' section!

Science Hobbyist


8 and up. Fun and useful articles and experiments. Includes the famous resource, Is Your Child's Science Textbook Wrong?

The Particle Adventure

8 and up. Activity sheets, graphics, animations..all explaining the subatomic world.

PHet Simulations

All kinds of Java physics demonstrations! Colorful and insightful!

EdHeads Simple Machines


Ages 6 to 12. Activities, animations, etc. all explaining how simple machines work.

Science with me

A cheery, colorful website with games, animations, worksheets and coloring pages for preschool to about age 10. Subscription required, but it's free!

Wednesday, July 2, 2008

To Sleep, Perchance to Grow

Starting at about age 11, a child's internal clock gets a bit screwed up, to put it mildly. Most children go from being the family's early risers to needing a marching band through their bedrooms to get them out of bed.

This isn't (just) stubbornness : this is biology.

Most parents and doctors used to think that the later bedtimes and comfortable waking times were determined mainly by social factors, instead of biological ones, but recent research has led to the possibility that the trend towards night-owlishness and late rising is a result of changes in the young person's circadian clock. Indeed, teens tend to fall asleep later, need more sleep than when they were children, and it can be said that they have truly reached maturity when they stop sleeping in every chance they get. This seems to be related to the fact that the brain's circadian clock, which is mostly controlled by melatonin, switches time zones and keeps the child feeling awake until later in the evening...and sleepy later in the morning.


This isn't surprising when we consider the things going on in the young person's body. During the teen years, the brain overproduces gray matter, the thinking, sensory-processing part of the brain. The extra neurons are trimmed off as needed. Thus the brain is essentially rewired during the teens. The body, besides growing out of clothes every three weeks, is having a constantly changing hormone cocktail to deal with. And, because puberty is happening earlier and earlier, this is all happening to less and less mature people.

The kids need all the help they can get.


How this plays out in our home schools varies as much as the families themselves. In our family, I've tried to use our middle son's tendencies towards sleep deprivation experiments for our benefit. Ken goes to bed late on school days, and he gets up later than anyone else. This gives me time to spend with his two younger siblings, which means that the younger two get more attention, and Ken gets his own special time also, though he has some science activities with his younger brother. It's not standard, but it works, and Ken is less of a zombie.

Saturday, June 28, 2008

Growing into Spelling


I don’t teach spelling to my kids. No lists, no books with puzzles and tests, no quizzing over words and memorizing patterns.

I tried. I really did. My oldest daughter, who is very word-oriented, opened her nice, new second grade speller and promptly aced the post-test at the end of the book. I saved it for her sister, who was so bored by the endless listsand constant busywork that she would hide under her bed when spelling time came around. It didn’t seem to translate onto her written pages anyway: she could spell perfectly on the tests, and then spell ‘creatively’ in her stories. So The Book was put aside after about three units, and I didn’t bother to buy the upper levels.


With Son #1, I didn’t have time to bring out The Book. Or maybe I kept forgetting on purpose. He was an atrocious speller until he was nine and he discovered the joys of email and publishing stories on a family website. Suddenly, spelling was important, and he the words seemed to spring – correctly spelled - from him fingers! His middle brother had the same letter-related epiphany at ten, and the youngest son, at nine, is in the middle of that time of discovery right now.


When they needed spelling, they learned to spell. For all of them, the turning point came when they wanted to communicate with someone through print. Our daughters wanted to send letters to pen pals, and later emails to friends. Our sons wanted to write stories and songs, and send messages online. Even then there was no ‘studying’ involved. They just used the sense of the printed word that they’d gained in reading.


My experiment is continuing. Our youngest daughter, at six, is fascinated with spelling, and often asks me to spell words for her to print or type. She'll do crosswords with help, but the mere sight of lists of words sends her off to visit her Polly Pockets.


Of course, we’re all wired a bit differently, and maybe some kids don’t have the ‘spelling gene’. For them, a basic course in the mechanics of spelling may be just the trick, especially if they've reached ten or twelve and haven't had it 'click' yet. But for many kids (and their multi-tasking parent/teachers), maybe one less workbook would mean a few more minutes to play Legos!!

Wednesday, June 25, 2008

Ideal Schedule vs Real Schedule

I'm hard at work on my plans for next year's homeschooling...or maybe I should say, I'm planning some studies that we might get to, if no one leads us off into a detailed study of the inside of soccer balls or the best water/pressure ratios for soda bottle rockets!

As part of that work, I'm toying with the idea of an attempted schedule. I've tried this before, but babies, cranky appliances and minor disasters always seem to loom larger in real life than my best-laid plans. Now that everyone is past toddlerhood, maybe I can try again. It might go something like this:

7:30 Get up; shower and dress
8:00 Allie (7) and Neal (10) dance downstairs, dressed and singing selections from 'The Sound of Music"; they breakfast on oatmeal and fruit, then do chores while working on their poem memorization

8:30 See husband off; make gourmet main dish for dinner and put in fridge
9:00- 12:00 Start school; math, writing, then our long lesson of science or history, which delights and enthralls the kids to the point of giddiness
10:00 Ken (14) emerges from his room, having already completed his day's algebra assignment; he breakfasts, then begins writing his notes for history or science
12:00 Lunch, made by Ken or Neal while I work on my website
1:00 - 3:00 Neal and Allie play outside while I study A+ and Linux computer certification materials with Ken, then we read and discuss any other assignments
4:00 Make dinner; clean house while listening to a course from The Teaching Company
6:00 Dinner, which includes sparkling, witty conversation about politics, current events, and all the swell things the kids learnes in lessons that day
7:00-9:00 Family reading and game time
I can dream, can't I?
In all my years of homeschooling, I've had about five days that followed any sort of real schedule. From babies leaking all over worksheets, to appliances leaking all over science projects, real life seems to trump my mental picture of 'how things are supposed to go'.

We have vague routines that we tend to fall into, e.g., lessons with the younger ones before lunch, lessons with the older ones after, or subjects that require more intense concentration (like math) first, then less structured ones later, but that rule isn't hard and fast either, since we also try to study according to enthusiasms.

We have vague routines that we tend to fall into, e.g., lessons with the younger ones before lunch, lessons with the older ones after, or subjects that require more intense concentration (like math) first, then less structured ones later, but that rule isn't hard and fast either, since we also try to study according to enthusiasms.
So here is a more realistic attempt at a schedule:





7:56 Get up late, since alarm was reset by cat; search for clothes that match in laundry basket

8:56 Allie staggers down the stairs, followed by Neal, who looks like he belongs on the set of a zombie movie. They try to watch tv, but I've put a time block on it.They whine a bit, then play legos until breakfast.
9:00 I check email, then look for something to have for dinner. Not much available. The washer starts doing annoying things, so I unplug and reset it. Pandemonium breaks out when the lego people are unfairly divided. Quell riot, start kids cleaning lego-strewn living room.
10:00 Lesson time. Kids start out playing calmly with pattern blocks while I read aloud about the history of science. Somewhere around Dionysius the Elder of Syracuse, two blocks become projectiles to recreate a basic catapult. After removing the blocks and setting out paper and pencils, Neal and Allie begin an in-depth discussion of various types of projectile launching, and proceed to rocket propulsion and it's application in our backyard. It's not on the lesson plan, but it's learning all the same.
11:00 Break to test new rocket theory. Neighbor's cat gets plastic nose cone in the face. He's unhurt, but I'm so glad he can't talk! Ken joins us and improves the aim of the rocket so that it misses animals but lands on the garage roof

12:00 Mom must work a bit, so kids make lunch. That, at least, actually goes along with the plan!
1:00 More bookwork, at least in theory. Kids do math and writing, while I try to help out. Ken progresses to computer, where I can't help because I don't do Linux programming. He is accompanied by music that is definitely not from Disney! After lessons, the younger two play
3:00 Neighborhood kids start showing up, right after Allie asks about the origin of rain. Soon I have nine extra kids in the kitchen watching me make 'rain' with a pan of boiling water and a pan of ice. This is my 'public service' time, since they don't get much science in government schools anymore. Group lego sessions ensue, followed by outside play
6:00 Dinner, which includes two wonderful glasses of milk all over the table. This does not provoke brilliant, scintillating conversation...
7:00 to 9:00 Family run-all-over-the-town time. Everyone has to go somewhere: the library, soccer practice, a friend's house, a class at the Y, Brownies....
10:00 Order kids to bed. Read a chapter of Harry Potter to Allie and Neal. Collapse in a heap.

Sunday, May 25, 2008

Semi-unschooling


When I was a child, I thought that the I would have a much better education if they'd only drop me off at the library for a few hours a day. Looking back, I realize that this was true. The 'one size fits all' approach didn't work very well in my case, or in the cases of most children who didn't fit the statistical norms. With the current emphasis on meeting testing goals rather than becoming educated, it's even more true now.

With homeschooling, we can have the free education that we wish for our kids... except that, having been brought up in a 'teaching' culture, we may be a bit afraid to sit back and let the kids teach themselves entirely. This feeling of uncertainty can be justified. Many kids are less interested in learning than we'd wish, and some simply like to see what they can get away with. (I once found out that my fourteen-year-old son was sleeping later and later on school days so that he could amaze his friend with how late he was permitted to sleep in! That ended that little experiment!!)

In some countries and states, parents must show evidence of some form of more traditional education taking place, and they may even have to make the children take exams. What if the kids' interests don't coincide with the exam schedule, or they produce no paper trails to satisfy the Powers That Be?
After wrestling with dilemma over many children, I finally decided that we could make our own compromise between traditional 'school' and unschooling...semi-unschooling, if you will.




On most days, we have a short 'classroom' time for the under twelves. This focuses on things that the kids might not study on their own, at least not until they need them for college entrance exams. We do a bit of math, including logic and puzzle-type activities and basic operations learning games. Sometimes this part is done on the computer. We keep it short, though, unless someone gets excited and carries on on their own. We do a bit of writing, and most of the time the kids pick their topics and write as they wish. Sometimes I make suggestions, or we have a group subject and share our results. For some kids, doing writing on the computer makes it much more tolerable.

We never do 'assigned' reading, since the kids always have their own books going. We just keep a list of who's reading what. I usually read aloud to the kids at bedtime, if possible. This has the added benefit of making our official school day 14 hours long....which is good, since our state counts by hours!!

After that, we have a bit about some aspect of science , history, geography, etc. These can feature
  • me reading while the kids draw, color, or do Legos
  • a website
  • making an individual or group project, like a timeline or a tipi out of cornstalks
  • a DVD on the subject
This all lasts about an hour, which is what a principal that I knew once told me that most schoolkids get of actual instructional time per day. After that, it's individual project time, playtime, worktime, etc. I have blocked most of the nonsense channels on the TV, and there are many hours that are blocked entirely, so that medium can only be used with permission. We have all kinds of projects kits and books around, and the free explorations can get quite wild.

My kids have taught themselves things that I would never have been able to begin to try: Japanese, Swahili, Linux programming, building computers, soccer refereeing...They've also learned many practical skills, like laundry, appliance and computer repair and maintenance, animal care, and gardening.




In the teens, education becomes a lot more intense, and in some cases I intervene a bit more than I would have a few years ago. Kids can often get quite lazy during the early teens, since they are growing so fast and rewiring their brains, and they sometimes must be gently assisted in not allowing themselves to turn into slugs. With my current young teen, we read books together and I ask him to do Internet research on various subjects. He also does Algebra, which he loves to loathe but which he is secretly rather fond of.
Older teens are usually ready for apprenticeship and/or college in at least a few subjects, whichever is their chosen path. They could also design self-study courses that could lead to tests for college credit, like computer certification, CLEP or AP exams. Some may even begin to start their own businesses.

Exactly how the school/self-study program works for every child and every homeschooling family will vary from day to day, and that's as it should be. At the beginning of each year, I lay out plans for what I hope to accomplish, and though I never seem to get through the list, I do seem to acquire quite a list of things that we've learned. In the end, I think that I learn much more than the kids do. Or maybe I'm just familiar enough with pedagogical jargon to realize that the fun we had could be counted as 'school'!

Thursday, May 15, 2008

Thinking Games


These games are great to pull out when you have a wait somewhere, or during dinner, or any other odd moments that you'd like to turn into 'school time.' One of the best things is that they can be used for a wide variety of ages. The answers that come from your five-year-old may be hilarious...or amusing. The ones from your older children may be profound.

Another good thing is that the games are open-ended...there can be more than one 'right' answer.


1. How are _____ and ____ alike? How are they different?

In the blanks, put in two things, animals, jobs, etc. For instance, "How are carrots and radishes alike?" Answers could vary from "They're both growing in our garden" to "They both contain vitamins," to " They both taste yummy!" Encourage creativity and exploration of ideas. Differences could involve color, taste, genus, shape, growing conditions, etc.

Here are a few ideas to get you started:

cats and dogs
cars and dump trucks
stars and light bulbs
pens and chalk
cows and bananas (go far afield occasionally!!)
love and respect
values and rules
cooking and driving
ravens and writing desks (from Alice in Wonderland)


2. What doesn't belong?

In this game, you list four thing: three that go together in some way, no matter how obscure, and one that's 'odd one out.' Remember, though, that these things can often have more than one outcome: you may think that one of the items is out for one reason, but your creative child may point out that the same item, or a different one, is out for an entirely different reason. As long as the person can justify their answer, it's good. For example:

sock shoe slipper shirt

You could exempt the shirt because it's the one that doesn't fit on the foot. But your brilliant five-year-old may choose the shoe because it's not soft or made of fabric, as the others are. You're both right.

Here are a few ideas for this game:

banana / orange / apple / celery
fire truck / police car /ambulance / semi truck
pen / pencil / crayon / chalk
MP3 / GIF / BMP / JPEG
Firefox / Opera / Internet Explorer / Windows
Justice / love / thought / mercy


3. Where am I?

Imagine that you are somewhere else..say, on human body. Describe where you are with enough detail to clue your listeners in on where you are. For instance:

"I'm in dark cave, but there's light at the end of the tunnel...it's sticky and gooey in here, and there are these things sticking up all over the place...Whew! That was close! I nearly got blown out of the cave by high winds!"

(inside a nostril!)

This can also be played using different locations. Try

* planets
* countries
* cities
* locations in your house or neighborhood
* places on the periodic table
* book, myth, or Star Trek locations, etc.


Pick a low-tech means of travel: bicycle, goat cart, little red wagon. Then, use your imagination to figure out some great new add-ons, like:
  • GPS for your bike
  • cup holders for the goat cart
  • reclining bucket seats for the wagon...
Name 17 things that kids do better than adults.
You are the Commissioner for the new National Shoe-Tying League (or Kick Ball, or Sand-Castle Building, or whatever you choose). You have eight teams. What cities would get to host them? What kind of facilities would they need? Name your teams, and figure out their mascots and colors.
Make a list of 27 things that you'd find in a mad scientist's lab. Eye of newt, anyone?
My son has a Sarcastic Ball, kind of like a Magic 8 Ball that gives flip answers to life's questions. There are also Psychic Soccer Balls, Affirmation Balls, and more. Design your own Magic Ball to answer yes-or-no questions. What kind of ball would a Barbie aficionado have? How about someone from the Roman Empire?
Rewrite an Early Reader using really big words....or should I say, using astronomic lexemes!
Create a box of crayons for a special group of people...maybe animal lovers, or computer geeks. Give all of the crayons new names, like Screen-of Death Blue, or Tiger Stripe Orange.



There are 365 1/2 days in a calendar year, but the present calendar is confusing. Make your own year, with however many months you feel are appropriate, days off as you see fit, etc. Be sure to rename everything!
How would you celebrate a holiday like Christmas if you were in a totally different climate? Maybe you're used to having barbecues on the beach, but you'll be in a snowy area, or vise-versa. Or you're used to Trick-or-Treating in chilly drizzle, but you'll be in humid heat. How would the weather affect your celebrations?
A few years ago, a group of activists bought dolls from a store, switched their voice boxes, and then returned the dolls. When other people bought the dolls, they found that GI Joe, the Army action figure, said, in girly voice, " “Will we ever have enough clothes?”, "Math is hard!" and “I love shopping!” The Barbies growled, “Vengeance is mine!” and " Lock and load!" What other toys could be similarly switched?
For holidays this year, you got a box of Fortune cookies...but each of the twelve cookies had a slip inside that told something that would actually happen during that month. What would you like the slips to say?
What if everyone in the world had an identical twin? What if everyone were a conjoined twin?
Think of seven people that you know. What vegetable do they remind you of? What board game? What candy?

How might things be different if your country was half its size? How about twice its size?
A meteor is headed towards Earth. How would you stop or deflect it?
Think of fifty words that describe rain...or cows...or bunnies...or the way your brother snores...
Open a celestial travel agency. Plan trips to other worlds, both real and imaginary. Make travel brochures, videos, maps, posters, etc., then book tours for friends and family!

Play International Twister with a World Map Shower Curtain...Mom calls the countries so she doesn't have to have help getting up and aspirin afterward!
Play Categories: one person thinks of a category, like songs with girls' names in them, or breeds of dog, or frozen foods. Then everyone takes turns coming up with members of the set.

Saturday, May 3, 2008

Time For College!


It used to be that homeschooling families approached colleges with some fear and trepidation. The path to admission was quirky and nonsensical, and the hoops that needed to be jumped through were often ridiculous…if the school would even consider accepting a non-traditionally-schooled person. Homeschoolers had no access to federal scholarships, and colleges rarely gave any money to them.

Things have changed, and definitely for the better. Homeschoolers are entering college in record numbers, with higher test scores than their public school counterparts.

“Home educated students generally score at the 65th to 80th percentile on achievement tests, 15 to 30 percentile points higher than those in public schools,” writes Brian D. Ray, Ph.D. of the National Home Education Research Institute. They also tend to stay in college and finish on time, often with above-average grades. This makes them very desirable students.

The Financial Aid picture has changed also. Thanks to the Higher Education Act Amendments of 1998 (Pub. L. No. 105-244), the student is eligible for Federal Aid if “the student has completed a secondary school education in a homeschool setting that is treated as a homeschool or a private school under state law. That’s all that is necessary. No GED, no special tests, just a homeschool diploma. The law also discourages colleges from discriminating against homeschoolers, and encourages them to accept students on the basis of their ability, not the accreditation of their school.

This played out very well recently when I took my seventeen-year-old son to our local community college to enroll him in their computer science program. I went armed: copies of my letters from the county board of education to prove that we were legal, a homemade high-school transcript to show what he’d studied, results of a recent standardized test, and a copy of the state homeschool regulations.
I didn’t need any of it.

I dropped Evan off to take his entrance placement tests to see which level of classes he needed to start with. Evan hadn’t studied much, but he felt ready for the challenge, and it could be retaken if he chose.
An hour and a half later, I went to pick Evan up. He was not in the testing room, and he’d left only about two minutes before. I wandered around the campus, wondering how I could lose someone twice my size. After a nice long walk, one of the ladies in the testing room said that maybe they’d sent him to the academic counselor.

When I finally caught up with Evan, all there was to do was pay.
He’d registered, been accepted, and signed up for three classes (no remedial needed).
It was a bit more complicated five years ago when his older sister, Claire, applied to a small, private, heavily academic college. She had a few small scholarships to the school from some church programs she’d participated in, but she was only sixteen, so we doubted she’d make it. On the other hand, she had an excellent ACT score.

This school, like may now, had a user-friendly program for admitting homeschoolers. They asked for a list of courses taken with books used, test scores, a student essay, and recommendations. It was easy to navigate, and the admittance office was very helpful. All-in-all, though, it took a few months, not counting the dishearteningly long FAFSA application.

When all was said and done, though, Claire was offered most of her tuition paid in scholarships and a very low-interest loan for the rest. She graduated last year, second –and youngest- in her class!

A few useful links for all college-bound students:

Friday, April 18, 2008

Minor Reasons to Homeschool


I've seen several lists of this type over the years. Most focus on major reasons, like moral development, superior educational opportunities and such. I want to look a little more closely at a few of my favorite but less-well-known reasons.

I get to spend time with my kids when they are at their freshest. Instead of seeing them mostly as they rush to go off to school, and when they come home cranky and stressed, I get them when they are at their best..and also, of course, at their worst....

My husband gets to spend time with them because we can adapt our schedules to him. He usually works from 10am to 7:30pm, and this means that he would see them for only an hour or so before they had to go to bed. So much for quality time with daddy...

I get more time to play with Legos, and read my favorite kids' books without having anyone accuse me of being childish.




The schools usually frown on kids arriving late or skipping school to sleep in after a very late night of astronomy...

The snow here in our part of Ohio only stays around a few times a year. Most of the time, it melts before lunch. My kids can play out in it, but most kids are in school and can only see it out the window...if they actually have a window in their classroom.

Since I brought that up, I'll make the fact that all our rooms have windows part of the list.

If the air conditioning at our house breaks, we can get it fixed without a new tax levy and three years' time, unlike a school near us, where kids had to go to school in 90 degree heat with few windows that opened.

More time for physical education...which is important for health.

Family vacations can be taken during the off season, which can be cheaper and less crowded.

Kids are still able to look adults in the eye. That seems to be a common statement about homeschooled children.

We help bring up the usage rates of libraries, museums, zoos, etc. with our frequent visits.

You'll get to hear a lot more of your children's original thoughts.

No long, drawn out bus trips.

One day, your thirteen-year-old will gather some neighborhood tweens and teens for a trivia contest with a new deck of science trivia cards. The winner will be your ten-year-old. Second will be your six-year-old.

Thursday, April 17, 2008

Learning and Squirming

We sit down at the dining room table all ready to “do school.” Pencils are sharpened: notebooks are opened: books are stacked neatly beside each child. They’re all dressed, combed and breakfasted, and eagerly awaiting my words of wisdom about the gross national product of Liberia….

Yes, of course I’m dreaming. Reality, as we know, is more like, “Wait, Mom! I have to finish this tower before the cat knocks it over!” “My gerbil just got loose and he’s eating the sofa!!” “The baby just squeezed toothpaste all over the cat!”

Or the dread “This is so boring! Can I go watch TV?”

No, you can’t, unless it’s “Mythbusters
” or “Bill Nye the Science Guy.” After that, you can watch while Mommy tries to glue back in the hair she just pulled out!

But I have found a few ways to lure in the most reluctant and squirmy learners…at least some of the time.

Over the years, I’ve observed that bored children don’t hear you anyway. If they have the least bit of imagination, they are mentally off at the beach when you start ‘discussing’ the anatomy of flatworms, unless flatworms fall within their areas of interest. So all those lectures are really just an exercise for you…and not a really exciting one at that.

I tried having them take notes, but that doesn’t seem to work well or comfortably until they are in their teens. Before then, they just seem to get so wrapped up in what they are writing that they lose track of what else is being said. Once they reach thirteen or fourteen, I do encourage them to try note-taking now and then as preparation for college.

One day I was so frustrated that nothing was getting done that I sat on the couch and began to read A Child’s History of the World while Renee (then age 6) and Claire (age 3) played in the living room with Legos. I read several chapters, and we discussed them as I read…all while elaborate castles and forts grew on the floor. The surprising thing was that they remembered far better than when I attempted to make them sit still and pay attention…and their recall was better the next days and weeks. Even little Claire began naming her Lego people after historical characters.

And so began my experiments with things that keep their hands busy while allowing their minds to focus on what they hear. So far, our family favorites are:


• a floor full of Legos or Lincoln Logs
• puzzles
• mathematics manipulatives, like Cuisenaire Rods
• drawing, painting and coloring supplies
• food
• modeling clay
• beads to string

In my family’s experience, the saying, "The mind can absorb no more than the seat can endure” definitely holds true. But the mind can absorb a lot more if the body is happily occupied.

They do grow out of it and learn to sit still. My daughter didn’t take Legos to play with during her lectures at college, though I’m sure she continued her habit of doodling on the margins of her notes!

Wednesday, April 16, 2008

Misconceptions about Homeschool Socialization


Your kids will leave the house only for educational events, like Calculus for Eight-Year-Olds class and grocery store trips.

You could choose to limit them in that way...or you could choose to open their world to include sports, clubs, religious services, community service projects, trips to friends' houses...

Neighborhood kids will not want to play with your kids.

You are the Parents who are actually home. Kids will flock to your house after school. Most likely, you will have to set limits, lest you be invaded by children as thick as locusts.

Your kids will learn all of your bad habits.

I'd rather that, than have them learn other people's bad habits, like drugs at twelve and sex at thirteen.

Your kids will not learn to do 'normal' things, like stand in line.

Are you kidding? They go to the grocery with you. They play sports, and they go to crowded museums. Lines are a grand old tradition, they are not limited to schools, and they're are not going away anytime soon. The other wonderful experiences involving waiting endlessly, responding to authority, and being civil to those around you are just as available in the world outside -and inside - your house.

They'll never learn to raise their hands to talk

And this is harmful?

In school, children are the ones who are supposed to be learning to communicate, but they are required to keep quiet most of the time. Contradiction? I think so.

All the same, be sure to teach your children to wait their turn in conversations, I'm sure that most homeschooled kids attend enough 'classroom' type activities, as well as other functions that require them to listen attentively, but maybe most of a seven hour day every day is a bit much.

You have to be SuperNatural Parent, Domestic Deity of the Decade

While it is advisable to get your kids started in the world of cooking, basic sewing, etc, that doesn't mean that you have to become Martha Stewart or Mr. Natural. Bead baking may be beyond you, but maybe a friend or grandparent will be willing to show your kids how it's done. These are good experiences for them, even if it's not their favorite activity.

Besides, if you teach them a bit of cooking, maybe one of them will really take to it and replace you in the kitchen!

You must wear a denim jumper and canvas tennis shoes.

Only if you belong to a conservative homeschooling group and you feel that you must succumb to peer pressure. Or you just happen to like denim jumpers, in which case, wear them happily!

Monday, April 14, 2008

Homeschool Record Keeping


As I said in Confessions of a Semi-Unschooler, I'm not a naturally organized person. I'm more apt to "go with the flow,' changing and adapting as the moment arrives. I'm almost too flexible sometimes, or at least it can appear that way.

So in twenty-plus years of homeschooling, I've tried all sorts of record keeping systems, sometimes even in one year. In the beginning, it was mainly so that we would have some kind of proof of actual education taking place in case we were hauled into court (that was happening in parts of our state), but later on it became more a matter of being a family record - a diary of sorts.

Things to Consider

  • Why are you keeping the records? Is is a formal matter, in case your someone reports you for educational neglect, a record of achievement for your child, or a personal log that lets you keep you general direction in mind?
  • What kind of legal requirements does your nation or state have? In some places, the only legal necessity is attendance, while in others, a full record of materials used and activities completed is advisable.
  • How likely are you to keep it up? If you're not blessed with the Record-Keeping gene, a simpler, more easily completed method is best, along with a bit of self-discipline. If you get a sense of accomplishment from neatly filled in charts and have the time to put into them, then they might help you feel like you're progressing. If you're unsure, it may be best to start with a simple program, like using index cards or notebook paper, and move on from there.
  • Would this be useful in the future? Would having a record of what you did with Dear Child #1 help down the road with DC#2? It might, but, then again, what are the odds on you being able to find and use it?
  • How many kids are you teaching? Do you want a separate log for each, or would it be easier to keep them together? How many subjects do you teach more than one child together?

Attendance

The easy way to do attendance is to use a calendar - printed out from the internet, hanging on the wall, or from inside a homeschool planner, and just circle the days that you have school. Simple. Don't forget to include half days, and remember that sports, library trips, religious activities, clubs, and even vacation can count as school. Even what's thought of as 'Christmas vacation' can be school, if the kids put on a Bill Nye video, make a skyscraper out of Legos, or build a tent and have a book club in the backyard.

That leaves about four days a year of 'no school.'

Door Folder


It is always wise to keep a copy of your correspondence with your school board (if any) and a copy of your nation or state's laws on homeschooling in a folder by your door. That way, you can prove your legality to relatives, passing tradesmen, police officers, truancy officials, or child welfare employees.

What You Intend to Do vs. What You Do


This is what I always fought battles with myself over. My husband would say, 'Plan your work and work your plan", and I'd try to fit my school into that mold...but it never seemed to work well. So I'd end up sliding to the opposite extreme, that of having no plan at all, which works well when your kids are in a highly motivated phase, but not so well when all they want to do is sleep and watch silly videos on YouTube. There has to be a happy medium, and it's an individual matter for you and your child to find it at that time.

The system I came up with is based on the idea that I have things that the kids and I have talked over and agreed to study, and a few that I'm adamant on, but sometimes life in the present demands answers now, not in three weeks when we finish our unit on the body structures of Protists. Alanna wants to know why cats get hairballs and what to do about them; Neal wants to know what happens to satellites that are hit by space debris; Ken wonders how to make a photo of his sister's face stretch out ridiculously with Photoshop...these questions demand mini-studies now! That is a very good thing, too, because kids retain more of information they seek themselves than they do information that we plow into their heads.

So flexibility is key here. Below I have several possibilities for various forms of record keeping. Try one out, and let me know how it goes for you!


A Homeschool Planner

There are several of these on the market, and they work best for those who are pretty organized already, or for those who have the time and want to develop the self-discipline to fill them in. Remember to take your own personality into account, as well as your children's learning styles. Be sure that you rule it, and don't let the occasional blank space make you feel pressured or guilty.

Regular teacher's Log work well, also, if you adapt them a bit. I'm using one now. I write what I intend to do on one page, circle what gets done as we do it, then write our diversions and alternate projects on the facing page. That provides a clear record with a minimum of fuss.



Email


This is a good option for the motivated teen, or for the early teen who seems to be causing a bit of conflict over his schoolwork. Sometimes, removing face-to-face contact over assignments for a while can be a good thing for both parties.

Simply put the young person's assignments in an email, and send them the night before each school day. Give choices of how to do the assignment (photo essay? written report? web page?), if possible, and then give them a bit of room.

When my one son was thirteen, we had a deal that, if he completed his schoolwork the night before, he could stay in bed as late as he liked the next day. He often took me up on that, and the system worked very well for a long while.

Computer Program


Several of these are available from homeschool suppliers also. These work well if you love using the computer and learning new programs, and you have the time, computer access and self-discipline to do it daily or weekly. My failure with this method always came about because of not having time on the computer in which to do it! Many people, though, find it very convenient, since you can make a record of the assignments, then print them out easily.

Let Them Do It!

For an older child, especially one who has an organizational bent anyway, this can be wonderful. It gives them a sense of having some control over their day and their learning experience.

Let them choose their system, though they should be encouraged to keep it simple, then check with them often.

Index Cards / Notebook Paper


This is my usual choice. It's inexpensive, doesn't require lots of printer ink, and I can make it as detailed or as skimpy as I like, without leaving forlorn-looking white spaces on the premade pages.

I use index cards in a box with dividers, or notebook paper in a binder. On one side, I write what I intend to have Child A do that weekand I circle or check off the items as they are done. On the other, I make notes of our activities as the week actually proceeds. If two or three kids are doing the same thing, I note that on the card and make only one copy.

Again, the important thing is to let the cards be guidelines, not masters.

I also try to write in special things that happen, like parties, lost teeth and visits to Grandma's, as well as cute or wise sayings by the kids. This way the log becomes a sort of family diary. Adding a list of what the kids are reading, to themselves for fun as well as bedtime books and such, is a good thing to look back on also.

I've also used index cards to write out a child's daily assignments, usually the night before, to be given to the child at the beginning of the day. This can work well for an organized child, but they are easily lost amidst the piles of books, so pinning them to a bulletin board may be a better choice.


A Typical Week's Pages




SCIENCE

Begin growing bacterial cultures
My First Lab Ultimate Microscope Study:
Adventures with a Microscope
A World in a Drop of Water
Microscope diagram:
Zoology Coloring Book
Slides


MATH

Ken: Real World Algebra, Chapters 11 and 12
The Standard Deviants - Algebra

Neal: Pages 124-128, 133-136, 138-142,
Multiplication games

Allie: Pages 12-14, 18-21, 23-27, 30-33


WRITING

Ken: Website daily
Allie and Neal: Turkey paragraph Organizers, The Creative Teacher
Craft into final paragraphs
Mad Libs


GEOGRAPHY
Kids Learn America!
National Geographic Our Fifty States
Scrambled States

Page 2

Allie: Brownies
Ken: Indoor Soccer
Neal: Basketball

All: Library, Homeschool Gym and Swimming, biking at park, trip to Grandparents in Hocking Hills

Growing Triops again!!!

Ken made fudge, Allie made lemonade from scratch.

Neal painted his chair.

Allie drew 6 house plans.

Neal drew Spongebob characters.

Ken Photoshopped Christmas pictures .

Boys photographed at Grandparents.

Ken did computer maintenance.

Neal built working computer out of spare parts - by himself! Ken got him Puppydog Linux, and now it's great! Have to get monitor, though...

Allie knows Girl Scout Law and Pledge.